Sexy? Romantic? Sometimes we can combine the two. I find that when my husband is being ‘romantic’ I find him quite sexy.
Take tonight for instance. He’s playing all my favorites songs, bands, singers….Journey, Alan Jackson, Conway Twitty, Keith Whitley, Willie Nelson, Alabama, Aerosmith, Ray Charles, Janis Joplin, Elvis….the list is quite long. Yes, I have a wide variety of music likes! We’re on opposite sides of the room and he’s playing one favorite song after another.
My husband is somewhat of a music savant! Give him three bars and he can tell you who it is, title, year recorded, who wrote it, and sometimes even why it was written. So music is his thing and I’m quite glad!
So tonight…he plays one favorite song after another….what he doesn’t realize is that he’s ‘wooing’ me…or maybe he does, lol, he’s a pretty bright guy. What makes it all so darned sexy is the fact that even after seven years of I’m pretty much of a ‘sure thing’ and he still woos me! ;o)
Now wooing can be something as simple as “Honey, what do you want for dinner?” -followed by a call to have my favorite chinese dishes delivered. He will also do laundry without being asked! He will also run to the grocery store on a Saturday morning so that I can write. Its simple things that can be the most romantic and therefore the most sexy! ;o) He builds me things, like my special laptop table so that I can sit in the recliner and write, tweet, blog, what have you.
So men, I speak to you now. If you’re trying to figure out a way to ‘woo’ your woman…its really quite simple. Yes, sometimes flowers will work, but when it comes right down to it, its the very simple things like doing dishes, folding a load of laundry, a back rub, or even playing her favorite music. It could also be popping in her favorite movie and making popcorn. And as my grandma used to say, “there ain’t nothin’ sexier on this planet than a man with a vacuum cleaner in his hands!”
A kind word, a compliment, a foot rub…ordering in…acknowledging how much she means to you, let her know what is in your heart. Don’t worry, they won’t take your macho man card away for letting your wife know how much you love her and appreciate her. That’s another thing my husband is very good at: I KNOW he cherishes me and he adores me. He shows it in so many simple ways that it just boggles my mind. ;o)
So romance can be something very simple which in turn, will cast you in a very sexy light. ;o)
Ladies, chime in and let me know what you think is romantic and/or sexy. ;o) We might be able to teach a few men with good intentions who might be a little lost and wondering what they can do to ‘woo’ their special lady. ;o) Think of it as a good cause, passing down your wisdom to others who might find it useful.
LETS KEEP IT CLEAN too! ;o)
Suzan